Don’t y’all hate when you tell someone you don’t talk to a family member anymore and the first thing they say is life is short? Like yeah I know…which is why I’m not finna spend it tolerating several forms of abuse and narcissism 😭TF
I don't want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster.
Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder.
And if that means she becomes everything I wasn't... good.
There's a version of me that only comes out when I'm mad... and honestly, it terrifies me. The moment anger hits, all my softness disappears. Suddenly, I'm bold, I'm blunt, and I'm ready to cut people off like they were never part of my story. No shaking, no second-guessing, just pure, dangerous clarity. Because when I'm mad, I don't just speak my mind... I speak every truth I kept tucked away out of kindness. And that's the part that ruins people. The scary part is, it might ruin me too, and even then, I still wouldn't blink.
people think depression means your sad and crying all the time. Depression for me is being stuck in a twilight zone. i can't think , i don't respond to things , nothing is interesting , i just feel empty. not sad , just blank. I have a lot of days like this and they are hardd
If she’s crying over you, losing sleep stressing about you, getting mad at what you do, and worrying about your well-being -that’s a girl who’s genuine and completely down for you.
The biggest red flag isn't anger.
It's someone who can hurt you, watch you cry, and still convince you that you're the problem.
That's not love, it's manipulation.
Insecure men will drain your time, your energy and your sense of self. You can’t “heal” him by loving harder. You either lose yourself trying or choose yourself and walk away.
Apologies if I don't reach out anymore. My life is falling apart. I'm sad almost every time, fighting for my life every day, second guessing my career path, tired from a job I don't like, confused, and sleeping whenever I get free time just to escape reality.