Anybody else feel like they're becoming a completely different woman lately? Not necessarily better or worse… just different. Different wants, different needs, different tolerance levels. It's interesting watching yourself evolve.
Topics to study to expands your MIND:
1. Authority bias
2. Emotional regulation
3. Game theory
4. Chaos theory
5. Anti fragile theory
6. Entropy
7. Dopamine systems
8. Hedonism
9. Nihilism
10. Body language
11. Emotional intelligence
Pick one topic research a lot before you go to bed Instead of watching doomed short videos.
By Jan 1 2027 you’re entire personality will change.
Adulthood humbles you. It'll turn you into a prayer warrior without you even noticing. As you grow, you start to understand that nothing in this life works without God.
Eu amo aquela frase “Todo mundo, mais cedo ou mais tarde, senta-se a mesa de um banquete de consequências. A vida é como um restaurante. Ninguém sai sem pagar.
Hot take but sometimes you need to be absent in other people's lives so you can be present in your own. Sometimes we give way too much for others while giving nothing to ourselves
As a Slavic woman, I am going to give you some advice, because I know that you need it. Be a problem. Be an absolute menace. Be as crazy as you can be, especially when it comes to men. With crazy, I don't mean cussing him out or slashing his tires. Slavic women don't do that. I mean be so unapologetically yourself that it scares him. He needs to fear you. He needs to know his place. You are the closest thing to God. He is accompanying you, but he needs to be good to deserve that place. Don't hold back. Say the thing that nobody is saying out loud. Call him out on his bullshit. Have high standards. Tell him what you want. Be up front and direct. And don't beat around the bush. The right man will think: "I have to keep this one. I am scared of her, but I need to do everything in my power to keep her." And the wrong man will eliminate himself really quickly. Because he will either know that he isn't capable of fulfilling your needs, or he will think that you are completely batshit crazy. Which is fine. Who cares? Stop being a good girl. Stop ignoring your needs and your standards just to keep a man. If you have to do that, that man is not yours to keep. But take care of yourself. Take care of your appearance. Don't walk around looking homeless. If you're going to have high standards for men, first you need to have high standards for yourself. I believe in you. Good luck.
girl to girl: sometimes you’ll find an old picture of yourself and suddenly realize you were actually beautiful during a time when you spent so much energy criticizing yourself.
God, sharpen my discernment without hardening my heart. Help me recognize good fruit, notice unhealthy patterns, establish wise boundaries, and remain loving without becoming naive.