the algorithm got so bad my own followers barely see what i post anymore. used to just drop something and people saw it. now it’s all about whatever makes the app more money. cool i guess.
Not even a year apart 🙃
the algorithm got so bad my own followers barely see what i post anymore. used to just drop something and people saw it. now it’s all about whatever makes the app more money. cool i guess.
Not even a year apart 🙃
People who stay mostly low-conflict, kind, and private often get treated as a blank or idealized surface for a while. Because they don’t supply a steady stream of real flaws or drama, other people fill in the gaps with their own expectations.
When that person eventually shows any ordinary human limitation—an imperfect choice, a private moment that leaks, a change in appearance, a messy relationship—the gap between the projected ideal and the actual person feels enormous.
The reaction can then swing hard in the other direction, treating the slip as proof they were secretly bad all along.