You WILL hear from me. I don't even know how to describe it, I feel physically sick when I keep quiet unless I'm done with you. Nakhona, you will first hear from me before I'm done.
I’m really tired of the honest people being held to a higher standard than the dishonest malignant narcissists who seemed to be allowed just get away with anything.
I hate when I think I'm Close to a friend and then I look up and I'm not invited to the parties, functions, graduations, etc. Or you see your friends posting their friends and you're not included... y'all so weird and this is why i stay to myself.
The worst type of people are those you confront with how their current behaviors effect you and then they want to tell you everything going on in their life
Nobody owes you a fight.
I ghost and confront in equal measure, I know when a person gets a kick out of plausible deniability because they love to revel in the hurt they cause then summarily deny it. I choose what to do according to how manipulative they are.
I found out recently that it’s a neurodivergent trauma response to believe if people understood the impact of their actions they’d change their behaviour and it explains a lot.