I love a man you don't have to use your brain with. You can just relax cause he plans, he leads, he figures it out, & he has everything handled so you can just be pretty and exist.
I’m not the “baby mama” I’m THE CUSTODIAL parent. I am THE PRIMARY parent! I’m THE MOTHEEERRR the head hunchooo. The ONE who doesn’t get to pick and choose when to show up. I’m the BIG DAWG if you may!🫰🏽& THE BIGGEST🤗
A narcissist will let his own house fall apart but be a hero everywhere else. Smiling for strangers, showing up and saving everybody but the people who love him. Behind closed doors? Cold, dismissive, and emotionally abusive. Image over integrity every time.
i’m still healing. & i don’t just mean healing from draining relationships or heartbreaks.. i’m healing from the mistakes i made in the past, my family issues, friendship issues, failing myself, disappointments i received, from expectations i couldn’t reach because i was too focused on the wrong things. from all the times i’ve been betrayed by the people i thought i could count on and everything i know i didnt deserve. so when i tell you i am still healing this is what i mean, it’s not about love.. my soul is still learning to clap for the pieces of myself that nobody wants to clap for. i’m still on the process of figuring things out on my own, still healing silently. i’m more focused then ever and ready to become the best version of myself.
Let's pray:
Heavenly Father, I step into this Monday with authority, not weakness; with fire, not fear. I decree that this week will not bury me, it will bless me. I command every battle assigned to drain me to scatter by fire. Every delay, every hindrance, every obstacle standing in my way be dismantled NOW in Jesus’ name. I declare that this Monday is the gateway of favor. Uncommon opportunities will locate me. Resources will align with my assignment. My name will be remembered in high places. I decree doors will swing open without struggle, helpers will appear without delay, and testimonies will flow without interruption. Lord, baptize me with fresh fire, fresh wisdom, and fresh strength. Let this day set the rhythm for a breakthrough all week long. I prophesy: I will not labour in vain. I will not be empty-handed. I will not cry bitter tears. Instead, I will laugh, I will testify, and I will rise.
This is not a regular Monday, it is a prophetic Monday, a miracle-bearing Monday, a destiny-shifting Monday. Father, let heaven back me, let angels surround me, and let Your glory manifest in every area of my life. Amen.
as independent as i am, i love to be babied 🥺. acts of service are how i feel loved. i don't care about money, just lighten my load..im too prideful to ask for help 😭, but wen you take the initiative to take things off my plate, i kno you really see me.