I say this not as critique of poly but of the entire pop therapyspeak premise of "needs" as quantifiable units of desire with which to measure our consumption of others: we are not Sims with green bars that an objectified other can or must satisfy
Wemby on dealing with the pressure of being down 0-2 in the Finals:
"This is everything that I wish for, so there's no reason to really overthink it. I mean, this is what I'm built for."