At some point in our adult lives we have to become comfortable with ppl talking about us. like be okay with being screenshotted, group messaged, lied on, cause I know I AM If I spent every second of my time addressing the things I heard, Id be broke miserable angry & stagnant.
My TOXIC TRAIT is I’ll keep TRYING & TRYING & TRYING because I have a Problem with QUITTING on ppl I care for until I QUIT & when I QUIT I really QUIT & there’s no fixing that because I turn COLD.
I try to be the best friend I can be for people but when it’s not reciprocated nor respected i just detach from that person, but when it’s respected & reciprocated I naturally give them even more love out of me. I go above and beyond for my real friends. I really outdo it for em.