The #neilgaiman article is a reminder that men who pose as feminist allies can sometimes be the worst offenders because they know the language tht can make abuse feel confusing or worse, consensual.
And it takes years to pick through the web of beautifully articulated gaslighting
I love working remotely more than anything but I do think human beings are meant to be out in the world together. Obviously not 5 days a week under fluorescent lights but like. twice per week in a meadow or cave sounds right