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My abuser has my youngest son again after abandoning him and his older brother in March to my mom's one morning. This is how abusers work when they get awarded full custody. Because I needed surgery. My oldest son is having panic attacks constantly since, scared his dad is coming
@Homeoffree61 Ya, except then the friend of the court works with them and CPS cuz they are all in on it. So children still vulnerable. Especially so if you don't realize memory issues were from Mk programming.
@QuidSitDeus@TaraBull@AdamOneTruth Hell no but suggesting it was planted? More than likely there were more videos of atrocious shit on there. So fucked up.
@QuidSitDeus@TaraBull@Adamonetruth, wtf? It was on his own phone! Seriously something wrong with your mind! How you can sit here blaming someone turning in solid evidence. Wow. Smh.
@AdamOneTruth@NarcissistBox Exactly why some men try to make it seem like the family they came from or their friends are horrible people. Slowly eating away at the woman's confidence and ability to trust herself and those closest to her. Worse when they do it to their wife and their own child! Despicable.
She's not crazy or bipolar... you're just experiencing the consequences of promising her a dream and delivering a nightmare.
He calls her crazy. Dramatic. Overly emotional. Unstable. Bipolar. He tells everyone who will listen that she "completely changed" and became impossible to deal with.
But let's talk about what actually happened.
He promised her consistency and delivered confusion. He promised loyalty and delivered lies. He promised a future and delivered excuses. He painted this beautiful picture of forever and then acted like commitment was some unbearable burden.
She didn't start out "crazy." She started out hopeful. Trusting. Excited. Willing to build something real and lasting.
But every single broken promise chipped away at her peace. Every lie made her question everything about reality. Every time he chose someone or something else over her, it broke her down a little more.
So yes, she started asking more questions. Yes, she started checking his phone because her intuition was screaming. Yes, she started reacting to things she would have previously ignored. Not because she's inherently unstable, but because he made her entire environment unstable.
You cannot promise someone the world and then deliver absolute chaos and expect them to remain calm and unbothered. You cannot gaslight someone for months or years and then act surprised when they don't trust you anymore.
She's not crazy. She's responding to your inconsistency. She's reacting to your betrayal. She's reflecting back the chaotic energy you created in the relationship.
You didn't meet a crazy woman. You created one through your actions. And now you're experiencing the natural consequences of your own behavior.
Own it.