@Karmyneismyname @NaoFrito@pinkcels@MJGR4IN3 So like, spreading hate towards men is unacceptable, but calling a woman an idiot and a whore is not hateful then? Dude, that was the whole point of og poster, what a fragile little wimp you are
Nonsexual intimacy is such a lost art.
The eye contact. The gentle touch. Deep convo. Holding hands. Mutual support. Hugging. Non sexual massages. Cooking a meal together. Shared experiences. Cuddles. Curiosity. Silence feels warm.
I can go on an on about this.
She didn’t raise a quitter.
She raised a perfectionist with a choke collar on.
You learned early that trying and failing felt more dangerous than never trying at all, so you became a specialist in almost-starting, in researching, planning, fantasizing, then freezing right at the edge.
not laziness
loyalty to a script you outgrew.
At some point you have to become your own parent a little.
Teach yourself this instead:
trying and failing is still movement, still proof you’re alive.
Staying frozen is the only real quit.