You donโt necessarily have to have some wild new year resolution and I hope you donโt feel pressured to. You can just be a better person. Better friend, better sibling, better child, better parent, better partner, better student or worker. Just do better. Take one day at a time.
black women are soft beings. we deserve to be handled gently. we deserve to have partners that donโt put the weight of the world on our shoulders just because we come across strong. handle us with care, handle us with fragility. we deserve that
When you compliment, kiss, hug, touch, stare, record, take pictures, cuddle, FaceTime, dates, long talks on the phone, cook together, take walksโฆ just love on your significant other it makes them feel so good, wanted and loved. The small things make a big difference. โก๏ธโค๏ธ
For my mental health , i put a limit on who i talk to daily and what i talk to them about . I limit what type of information i consume and i place boundaries heavily so i can stay at peace .