n they’d do it after asking if it’s my natural hair color (it is), to ask if I have extensions (i never do), or to ask how I style it like yessss I love sharing n would never gatekeep #blessed
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
And actually, I thank God he never made me a loser who gets intimidated by another woman’s beauty, personality, or accomplishments, and made me one of those who get inspired, encouraged, and uplifted by a strong presence.