One thing about me.. I’m gonna evolve. I don’t care what mindset I had a week ago.. everyday I wake up wanting better, thinking wiser & moving closer to the woman I pray I become
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola Completely get you. For me I try to give benefit of the doubt to both sides cause when I assume things in real life, sometimes I find out I really didn’t know what I thought I did. And that’s how I look at this show, we have no idea what these people are really thinking or why
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola Girl is all good. We discussed it like grown folk and were able to understand each other. Also I’m with you with trinity she’s the closest I got, but no client this year. Cheers to us for keeping it classy 🥂
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola So what I’m saying is you attacked me to defend your fave when I was making a nuanced comment not attacking anyone. When in reality the info and reason why you went so hard to defend your fave was a production push using real people. Maybe hear people out first in the future.
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola And I am saying the show is heavily edited and heavily influenced by producers, so what we see as an audience is already a curated narrative. Their emotions are real yes, but the version of it that we see is not the complete story.
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola With all due respect we don’t know how real anyone is because we’re watching a 1-hour heavily edited reality show snippet of a 24-hour day. And regardless of how genuine people are with finding love, everyone went on there for exposure. Also producers push for drama. Blame them.
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola I responded to someone saying why would someone want to stay in the same room as their previous couple who is with someone new. I said it’s a normal occurrence on love island and Melanie was not the only one dealing with that type of situation. It’s not that deep.
@victoriaanneho@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola You’re making a lot of assumptions I never assumed anything about why she did it. I only mentioned that it’s a normal occurrence on love island and that Corbin was in a similar situation. Those are two facts, everything else including why she did it is an assumption unless stated
Honestly, if you know how difficult & how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
once you cut people out of your life, you need to become very comfortable with them talking bad and making things up about you. bc they will fill your silence and your absence with stories that make them feel better about losing access to you. people rarely take accountability when it’s easier to paint you as the villain.
@NunuuChocolatee@Yurppy379343@bigmamajola Where did I make any assumptions? I said it’s a normal occurrence on love island and that Corbin was also in a situation where the person he was paired with was making out in the same room.
Right now life teaching me detachment. Nothing’s really mine. People come and go. Moments pass. Love shifts. It’s all temporary. I’m learning to enjoy things without gripping them too tight. To accept when energy changes. To let go when it’s time.
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