In the end the girl who treats a man like a debit card always seems to come out on top.
Meanwhile, the girls asking for nothing but attention, effort, & consistency end up in therapy trying to heal from it.
You are building him for the next woman, while he's damaging you for the next man. Sometimes love isn't enough, let him go. You deserve better. There's always a better friend, a better love, better everything never settle. #bettereverything
The kind where I can take a week to breathe & my whole life stays together. The kind where I can desire marriage, love, softness, & partnership while still knowing my stability belongs to me. Because a woman with money is a woman with options.
Peace is the real luxury, and I mean the kind of peace where your life is no longer wrapped around a job, a manager, a schedule, PTO requests, or somebody else deciding how much your time is worth. That is the kind of peace I wanted.
Ladies you never lost a man who never made effort, who never gave you peace, who never planned dates, who never was emotionally available & only showed up when it was convenient for him is not a loss FYI.
One person might tell you I'm a beautiful soul. Another might call me cold-hearted. Believe them both. Both of their versions of me are define by their actions. My reaction is a reflection of their actions.
To be known is to be loved, someone remembering the little things mean so much like what flowers you like, your favorite movie, memorable story or grief anniversary.