People wonder why I hardly visit them, blame my parents. I used to be big on visiting until they started telling me “awon to ma lon ba nile won, se won ma wa sile e ni?” Since then I no dey go people house again.
music is literally one of the best ways to understand the depths of a person. there’s so much to learn through the way someone hears, appreciates, & interprets music. it’s a cheat code.
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
Found my dad's rolling papers in his jacket ... I know these about 15 years old because my dad been gone since 2013. 🕊 now im going to go cry in the corner.