A man who is genuinely in love with you cannot be at peace while you are falling apart. That’s the clearest test. If he was the source of your pain, watched it consume you, saw the weight of it on your face, and still went to bed unbothered… he was never your safe place. Love doesn’t function that way. A man who truly values you feels your pain as something that matters to him personally. Your tears are not background noise he learns to ignore. They move him. They disturb him.
May an avoidant, emotionally unavailable, non communicative man who was perfect and loved me like I was his entire world until he just couldn’t choose me, never find me again.
Because wtf was that.
You really gotta be strong minded enough & and have the strength to get the fuck from round a nigga. Men will sit up in your face & act like they love you but really be draining you mentally, emotionally, financially, & physically. They'll study your weaknesses just to use them against you. They'll smile in your face while secretly praying on your downfall, blocking your growth, and feeding off your loyalty. Then they’ll guilt trip you when you try to leave & laugh with other mfs when you stay. That ain't love that's control and manipulation. Leave that ho! 💯
i stayed loyal to a man who continuously hurt me, lied to me, ignored me, hid things from me, watched me break into a million pieces with o zero emotions on his face but at the end of it all, still told me he loved me so much.
what hurts the most is knowing that while i was loving you wholeheartedly, you were busy finding someone else. i stayed loyal, trusted you, gave you my time and everything i had. the only thing you gave me back was betrayal.
Ladies, normalize healing ugly. Crying in the car. Rereading old texts. Starting over on day one for the fourth time. Nobody heals pretty. They just post pretty