@happyashail parallel or horizontal? Lol. they are vertical & technically not parallel, although in the US they almost are. they mostly run with longitude lines. There are some weird squiggly lines Lol.
Reasons to not have kids:
- you’re being pressured
- you want a mini version of yourself
- you want the unconditional love you never got
- you want someone to fulfill your un-lived life
- you’re at a certain age
Reasons to have kids:
- you’ve healed and can provide compassion, empathy, and nurturing to another person
- you have built an emotionally healthy home and want to share it
- you want to provide the space for a human being to become who they truly are
- you understand children have emotional and developmental needs
- you understand secure attachment and how this shapes a child’s brain and nervous system
- you feel deeply called to it in your body
- you’re ready to consistently sacrifice and feel good about it
i want to see kendall take the ACT, have the entire family vacation in destin florida, watch kylie do her own taxes, have kourtney and alabama work a shift at an applebees, and give reign his allowance and drop him off at a casino
@TrevoCrochet@zoloopa Sorry trevor, this is untrue. i have a bachelors degree & work 40 hours a week using my degree. I make a little less than $16/hour. It’s not just part time careers paying shitty.
Using therapy as a weekly place to vent about people or experiences you have rather than using it for self reflection actually blocks growth.
Therapy can easily become a space for ego validation if we’re not conscious.