Reading Kahf on Friday.
The hadith that came on reciting Kahf on Friday is weak. What makes it genuine is that you may read it on any day, whether it's Friday or any other day.
Prof Sani R/Lemo
Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
“Do not abuse the dead, for they have reached the result of what they put forward.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 1393)
"Do not revile the dead, lest you harm the living." (Jami` at-Tirmidhi 1982)
4 months ago, I started building in public.
I had:
> NO app launched ❌
> 0 followers
> a 9-5 job
After 3000 posts, now I have:
> launched my app ($900+ revenue) 💰
> 2700+ followers
> quit my 9-5
You can do it too.
Just keep posting! 💪
Laugh wan wound you until you call your girl late at night, ask where she is, and she tells you she’s at her friend’s place, but when you put two and two together, the numbers don’t add up. In that moment, laughter will suddenly become luxury.
This is the hidden danger of promiscuity, or better yet, the danger of witnessing it. It reshapes your mind. It breeds insecurity. It paints reality in false colors. Suddenly, no one is simply who they say they are; everyone is either a cheat or a cheat in waiting. Authenticity disappears. You no longer take people at face value because your own history has betrayed you.
When someone tells you “I love you,” you remember the times you once said those same words even as you slid into another’s bed. When they say they’re “going out,” you remember how you once swore the same line while heading to a secret rendezvous. Their truth becomes tainted by the shadow of your past lies, or the lies you’ve witnessed others live.
And that is the real tragedy: love itself loses its grip. It can no longer hold you whole. Promiscuity, once seen, refuses to be unseen. It rewrites your imagination of loyalty. It poisons the innocence of trust. You begin to project your betrayal onto the people who love you sincerely, and in doing so, you make their love carry the weight of sins they did not commit.
This is the corrosion: not that promiscuity ends love outright, but that it makes you incapable of loving cleanly ever again.
Marriage is not love. Marriage is mirrors.
Everyone walks in thinking it’s romance. Security. A forever flame.
But the deeper truth is this…
Marriage shows you you.
Your shadows. Your patterns. Your childhood wounds replayed in real time.
It isn’t about finding “the right person.”
It’s about whether you’re willing to face the version of yourself that only intimacy can expose.
Metaphysically, two souls bind their energies.
And once bound, there is no hiding.
Your partner becomes your reflection, for better or worse.
So the truth? Don’t marry to escape loneliness. Don’t marry to complete yourself.
Marry only when you’re ready to be confronted by your own soul every single day.
That’s the fire.
That’s the gift.
And that’s the test.
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Is it ABU cultural carnival or ABU Tabarruj carnival ?
Oh dear sisters don't be fooled by the illusions of the so called carnival and use it to showcase your Awrah and adornment, yes it might be one day affair but remember the repercussions of today's social media we're..
Hi Lady,
Tell your husband that it is recommended (strongly) to cover the Awrah during Salat, else there is no Salat.
Secondly, the noise from that TV is a strong distraction. He risks losing focus, another pillar in Salaat. Images where one prays are unacceptable, bcos the Angels do not enter a house/room where those images dwell.
I am sure he knows that as a Muslim.😙. And then comes the big one; one cannot be a Muslim & a Christian at the same time. There is something called "Tawheed". There is another concept called "Al-wala' & Al-Bara'_". I m sure he doesn't know about those, please ask him to search for those knowledge. They're very important for a believer. Yes, a Believer.
Thank you.