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I love the built environment… I research on waste… did I forget to say I that I am Madibaz and have a PhD in construction management

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@OlayinkaLere It’s obvious, agba ko ko ogbon

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@drtsbey I listened to the EV CEO at Imota… A few asks? What’s the total CO emission for producing one EV? It’s 4-8 tonnes. This is one conversation never had , we only talk to the emission of a moving car. There has to be a use of EV over time to understand the real pro and con

[ingride @iczk]

preciso admitir uma coisa vergonhosa: eu queria muito um labubu

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@ifedayo_johnson Can I ask what this failure thing is about? I think what’s it’s important is that @ifedayo_johnson proved that we speak and understand English well. spitting gibberish and saying he failed shows the level of thinking of people and I rest

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@seunokin the honourable you had today seemed to me like one of my very distorted students while I taught in Rep of Suud Afrika walahi

[Nononsense @NoNonsensezone]

Watch this 🪬 : Yorubaland is the homeland of the Yoruba people With a population of over 46 million the Yoruba are one of the largest ethnic groups in Africa. The Yoruba built one of the largest empires in West Africa and crafted some of humanity's finest art.

Their artists are famous worldwide and no other African culture has affected the Americas and Caribbean as much as the Yorubas. They left their mark through people, dance, food and the religions of Santeria, and Candomblé. So who are the Yoruba, what is their history, and what does it have to do with the chicken story

Well, let's find out. This video was researched and written by Deborah Oliveira

Cc Cogito

Be proudly Yoruba .. “ You have rich history “ 🪬🪬🪬🪬

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@kolawol2024 @Thuso1Africa You seem to me like someone suffering from loose brain syndrome

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@airfrance please do I need a visa if I am a UK resident flying your airline to Johannesburg?

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

Unfortunately

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@Leon_Schreib congratulations honourable minister. A quick ask...is PhD still excluded from the critical skill list as expunged? It was a blow to the academic community knowing how much PhD is revered all over the world but then saying it's not critical skill

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@DrCOmole I was going to comment then I just let it slide seeing you earn in the Charlie😂😂

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@NIUKCommunity abeg who get BCIS and or Costar. I’m willing to pay for the information/data I need from these two . Please dm me

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@Queen_Haddie Happy birthday to you

[Dr Joe Abah, OON @DrJoeAbah]

If I think about marriage, I think there are roughly 4 phases but this is not a general rule. [WARNING: LONG POST ALERT!]

Phase 1:
Newly married. Madly in love. Everything is “My husband…” /My wife…” Still enjoying yourselves. Spending money on nice things for each other. Going out often. Planning the future together. Sweet phase.

Phase 2:
The kids have started to come. Money is no longer enough. Stress and tension enters the marriage. The fights and arguments start. Communication is strained and each party may talk more to the kids than to each other.

Career is just getting to mid-management level and there is tension between being committed to work (so that career can advance) and being a good father/ mother and husband/ wife.

Each party wants to be proved right, as if they are collecting points in a competition for which they will get a trophy. Each party wants to claim their entitlement as husband or wife. Neither party treats the other with kindness. It is all about responsibility.

This is a very dangerous phase. If you are not careful, the marriage will crash at this stage.

Phase 3:
If the marriage survives Phase 2, there is then a phase of settlement. Career is better now. More money is coming in, although responsibilities are mounting. Now, you may build or buy your first house.

Each party will still complain about the other, sometimes to others. Each party will start to occasionally do nice things for each other again but because they have complained so much to others for so long, they can’t go back and say nice things about their spouse.

Looking at the couple, single people would have formed the impression that marriage is nothing but pain, suffering and heartache. They don’t get to hear the sweet parts.

The kids have become teenagers and school fees and rent/ mortgage are the biggest expenses in the house. The money available just about covers it.

There is the expectation of what the kids could become in future and the hope helps the marriage. The couple rally round to tackle the financial challenges.

However, at this stage too, one party may also feel that they want or deserve more, and walk away from the marriage. You will hear “I deserve to be happy and to enjoy my life. This can’t be all there is to this life. I want more.” Bad friends become much more prominent at this stage.

You could hear “I have just realised that I never really loved him/her.” Of course, sensible people will ask behind your back: “You just realised after 15 years of marriage and 3 kids, ba?😀

Phase 4:
The kids have started to leave home. It is now both of you alone most of the time. Initially, it would be awkward because the kids have always been a buffer for each party.

You then relearn communicating with each other again. Laughing again. Watching movies together again. Everyone is tired of the fights. Nobody is threatening to leave the marriage anymore. It’s too late for that now.

Saying sorry comes a lot easier. You then realise that all the pressures were external to both of you. You are kinder and nicer to each other. You start to appreciate how your spouse has helped your life. Your kids fill you with pride.

Before you know it, you finally have your husband back. You finally have your wife back.

So, if you married the love of your life, stay with it. Don’t give up. You’ll get through the tough times.

And you both will live happily ever after. 😀

Merry Christmas. 😀

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@sunrisedailynow @MaupeO @chamberlainusoh are the roads car worthy? Why do we need acme? Another opportunity to make police ask for one paper? Why can’t we have just one paper and not many papers? Whatever the PPRO says, we heard same thing in 2002 or so and it died off.

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@taadelodun Nice stuff. Built environment is a money spinner. Would hit your DMs

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@Oluomoofderby We’ll make all the Nigerians in the UK start collating their certificates, employers may start asking you to present your certificates for confirmation since our Supreme Court has spoken🙏

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@ReneRodrig1142 You’re a thief.. mi Lord, it wasn’t pleaded at the lower court and since the effluxion of time has happened… I am not a thief😂😂

[AyoA @ayoadeniran]

@gtbank abeg why have I not been able to log into this newbie app of yours for the past 6 days. It’s really frustrating. Help

[David Hundeyin @DavidHundeyin]

If you want to learn more about the history of post-independence African leadership, I highly recommend a YouTube channel called African Biographics (@african_biog).

It's run by Tatenda @tpmadz from Zimbabwe and I've personally learned a lot from it.