My coursemates and I contributed ₦1.2 million for one of our classmates who has been jobless for the past 6 years.
We raised the money to help him learn a skill or start a small business so he could get back on his feet.
Just last week, he sent his wedding invitation in the group.
The whole group went silent.
When we asked him why, he said since he now had “a little money,” he decided it was the right time to marry his girlfriend of 4 years.
We said nothing.
He sent another message:
“Guys please, I can’t do this alone. My wedding budget is ₦3.2 million. I need your support.”
They removed him from the group immediately🙄
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, a softer life exists. Let it happen.
They are beginning to wake up to what I have been shouting since.
Most people “cashing out” in Nigeria are doing so at the expense of those who aren’t. The economy is not designed for everyone to cash out - which is why that your breakthrough prayer is the same as wishing others fail so you can succeed.
It’s a dog eat dog economy.
To be very direct: the Dagote’s, the Otedola’s, the Adeleke’s, the Elumelu’s, the Tinubu’s are rich because you are poor.
This is why I laugh when poor people worship billionaires in Nigeria. You are only perpetuating your poverty.
I picked up my contentment trait from my parents, and hopefully I pass it down to my kids. Once you’re content with what you have, your life can only get better.
It is not necessary that your children must go through the same stress you go through in life. The joy of every parent is to make life easier for their children.
“By the time Tinubu is done with you people at the polls in 2027, you will then know why he’s called Asiwaju, & he will be crowned the greatest politician of all time.”
Lmao. So we cannot know why he’s called Asiwaju by delivering good governance abi?
APC people are specially cursed, bro. 😭
All my life I was told: work hard, play fair, follow the rules, and life will reward you.
Then you grow up and realize the rules were written by the winners and they never follow the rules.
The people who preach fairness don’t always play fair.
Being a good person doesn’t guarantee success. It just means you can sleep at night.
I totally agree. When you're trying to build your house, invest in the land too. If you get cheap land in the midst of people who are way too below your level, you may face untold envy. At your level, you know you're struggling and wishing to even grow bigger but to them, you're showing off. To you, you're not big enough. To them, you're showing that you're too big. Also, they don't have to get inside your fence before they gossip and spread wrong information about you.
I watched the video of Mirabel on Sunday, the girl who said she was rap£d, felt so bad for her, but when I saw the text, I reached out to a few friends that same evening telling them that I feel it's a lie, but I hate to be the bad guy since real rape cases happen and I wouldn’t like to make it tough for her and cause division for her case so I didn't say anything.
Rape is terrible, no woman should experience it, but that girl wasn't raped.
The screenshot of the message she dropped was just her texting herself.
She used a new account with zero follower to cover it up.
Her post far back as 2025; she posted she was an orphan who needed help.
Nobody will rape you and text you on TikTok or IG, to make it worse, the rapist was only saying she was poor and he's from a rich home making it seem like it’s just oppression. She just needed help, reason she made the post. Everything about the screenshot was about her being powerless, poor, and how she needed help.
I knew since Sunday that it was fake, but it's better to observe than ruin a case just in case your observations were wrong sometimes, reason I said nothing.
The so called rapist typed "SO" as "SOO", the girl also typed SO as SOO in her caption, that's not coincidental. She played y'all.
These are the people who make the real victims suffer. It's just a pity.
Lastly, if you ever rape a woman, it's fuck you. You don’t deserve to be here, you deserve to go underground, you starved retard.