“forgive your abusers and grant them absolution because they have gotten older and “changed”, or else you’re a reactionary and you’re making the world worse. you’re just as bad as them actually”
-my timeline for some reason
I want people to kill this notion that forgiveness is an obligation. It's deeply condescending, when we frame people who have dealt with trauma as lesser or as rotting because of their choice to not forgive.
Dibikin ngakak & geleng-geleng kagum sama iklan dari Thailand ini. Kalau liat beberapa detik awal, nggak nyangka bakal promosiin produk itu 😂
Kreativitasnya memang udah next level!
y'all are always so quick to defend and victimize former racists because they were teenagers who "just had an edgy phase", but never care about the countless black & brown teenagers who were on the recieving end of that "edgy phase"
Directly telling someone “Hey you’re doing absolutely nothing wrong, but I feel very irritable right now because of brain chemicals being off, so I need to be left alone for now while I get myself back to normal.” instead of taking it out on them, even if accidentally
@joshysaysstuff@sonoyavsthewrld Also, like....my friends and family follow me. And I'm a child of an adopted white family. So no...I'm not online telling white people to kill themselves
@joshysaysstuff@sonoyavsthewrld You are so weird. You want me to have told some to kill themselves so bad. Girl, some of us were just average joes living life and not being fucking weird. No I wasn't telling people to kill themselves. I dealt with suicide in my family real young and had Catholic guilt
@sgt_creamsoda@sonoyavsthewrld You know someone was on the receiving end of your racist bs right. Plenty of black teens told to kill themselves l. If you know you have a racist past and become a celebrity don't be surprised when people expect you to comment on it
this kind of talk turns me away from someone forever. people can change, but if you whine about people discussing it instead of just reiterating that you’re sorry and have grown then you’re not that sorry. no one put a gun to your head to speak on this.