i do not ever want a nigga to settle for me. get yo dream bitch & if you can't, don't bother me. i want a nigga that got the biggest crush on me lie prayed for me & didn't ever dm none of my homegirls.
Distance is my new response. I no longer have the energy to tell people what they did wrong. I donโt return energy,Iโll just remove myself. because I realized talking doesnโt fix anything with people who donโt want to understand. Iโm done explaining, repeating, or begging for basic respect. Iโll rather step back and give myself peace.
Small things that arenโt small for me.
1. Good morning texts
2. Voice notes
3. Unexpected texts
4. +4 messages
5. Showing interest
6. I heard that you like this
7. This reminds me of you
8. Unexpected calls
9. Remembering my birthday
10. Small updates even when busy
11. Small video clips
12. Sending songs that remind them of me
13. Laughing at my bad jokes
14. Have you eaten?
15. I saw this and thought of you
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