oh to be loved like a habit and not a chore. oh to be loved because loving you is their default state of being and not something they have to perform like a duty. oh to be loved because they don’t want to live a life where loving you doesn’t exist. oh to be loved truly
Whatever you do, never commit to a man who jumps to help others but finds ways to avoid helping you when you need it. It might not seem serious at first, but it is very serious. Don’t make the mistake of committing to such a man. Some men care little about their partners. Like why is he making everyone around him happy while you aren’t ? 🚮
Breakups hurt. You know what REALLY fucking hurts? Trying to”make it work” with someone who has PROVEN to you TIME AND TIME AGAIN that they do not give a fuck about your feelings. THAT hurts
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh?
someone putting you through the same pain twice means they hate you... i'm sorry but there's just no other way to justify how you hurt someone, see the pain you've caused, etc, do whatever it takes to get them to trust & love you again just to put them through it all over again.