Just a PSA : if you personally believe a r@pë victim has to keep their baby, especially because "God wanted her to get pregnant", then stay the fvçk away from me.
Rape and assault is not caused by attraction
Rape and assault is caused by the desire to control, to assert their power/dominance to a person. The desire and the strong intent to harm someone.
It’s very easy for a male to call women “Olosho”, “Ashawo” and everybody will believe without proof.
But if we call you “Rapist” Yall start screaming false allegations!
So false allegations only apply to you but not when you call her ashawo!
MMS!
Unpopular opinion that might ruffle feathers: parental ‘sacrifice’ is a myth. A child’s wellbeing is a parent’s responsibility, not a favour. Any sacrifice is yours to bear, not theirs to repay. Raise them fully cognizant of your challenges but know that it’s duty, not charity.
Don’t go to a brother’s house.
Don’t go for overnight study.
Don’t go to the market.
Don’t hire male stafff.
Don’t go to church.
Don’t go to party.
Don’t breathe.
Don’t exist.
It’s always advice upon advice for the girl child, never any vim for the rapist. You people are unwell.