one of the ugliest truths about life is that every choice kills another version of your life.
get married, and you’ll eventually miss the freedom you had alone. stay single, and there will be nights when you wonder what it would’ve been like to build a life with someone. have children, and you’ll miss parts of the life you had before them. don’t have children, and you may spend years wondering about the family you never created.
there is no perfect path and there is no decision that leaves you with everything.
the life you didn’t choose will always look better from a distance because you never had to pay its price.
stop searching for a choice you won’t regret , it doesn’t exist. choose your life, accept what it costs, and live with the consequences. buena suerte 👍
Your relationship with yourself cannot be built entirely around improvement. At some point, you have to become someone you are allowed to enjoy being. You get to be proud of who you are. Present tense.
Van Lathan, co-host of Higher Learning podcast, reacts to transphobic remarks by WNBA athlete Sophie Cunningham
"If you cannot gift trans people with visibility, humanity, and acceptance, could you at least gift them with silence? Could you at least shut the fu## up about it? Could you at least leave them the fu## alone?"
You guys are doing your victory lap on this shit, fucking up the country. You mean to tell me there are wars happening in the Middle East, food prices are crazy, like the environment is in the shitter, we can't eat lettuce without crap in our pants, all of this stuff, and you still picking on these people after all of this time?”
Animated sapphic short film "The Lovers" will be free-to-watch on Youtube starting August 30. Set in a dark fantasy Philippines, the story follows a romance between a Binondo seafood chef and a siren.
@boop_pl Baza. W tym kraju nie traktuje się osób LGBT jak normalnych, pełnoprawnych obywateli, to czemu miałaby laska za niego walczyć? Ja tam ogólnie uważam, że do wojska nigdy nie powinno się brać nikogo przymusowo, bo to zwykłe zabicie człowieka w dzisiejszych realiach wojennych.
was trying to talk through my (cis bisexual) coworker’s trans biases and i was like “so have you met trans people who act like that or is that just how people say trans people act” and she was like. well how people say they act
honestly i don’t think any terf will understand this because the pipeline from man hating feminist to anti trans conservatives is very real and miss kay. never lie.