I absolutely hate how rape / grooming / predatory behaviour is classified as “lack of sexual discipline”. It frames rapists as people who simply “lost control” “succumbed to their urges” rather than the violators they are
We haven’t earned the right to criticise anyone for doing whatever it takes to change their appearance when we refuse to confront why we dehumanise people we consider ugly while ascribing moral virtue, value and human worth to beauty.