When it comes to women, you must never separate yourself from your money. That is, when she’s with you, she’ll enjoy the blissfulness of life without you spending excessively just to prove some points. But spend comfortably while she’s with you. You spend when she’s present with you. And if she’s absent, you wish her well. And keep your money intact. This is how you play the game fairly to your advantage.
The biggest joke in modern dating is how many men still believe being nice, consistent, and emotionally available will make a woman choose them.
It does not work like that anymore. A lot of women enjoy the attention, the validation, and the free effort, then still pick the man who gives them less. Simping only makes you useful, not desired.
The men who are winning right now are the ones who stay detached, keep options, and walk the moment effort becomes one-sided.
Stop trying to earn love through service. It is a losing strategy.