Giving up the ability to pleasure oneself and cum is a must for subs in order to focus on the pleasure of an Alpha/Sir/Boss/Master. Be locked, be an object for Their pleasure, be useful.
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@alolanseel Yes! Also for me, it took training to wear my cage longer. I have a tight sack and it got chaffed very easily. So I slowly increased wear time, now wear it 6 months comfortably (with decaging twice a week to throughly clean). It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Listen to your body.
@alolanseel I use cage cream from kink3D. I’ve also used A&D diaper/anti chaffing ointment. The trick is to use it frequently. I apply at least 3 times a day and more if needed.
A few things I love about chastity:
1. The Constant Longing
One of my favorite things about chastity is the constant sense of longing. My keyholder is on my mind almost all the time, and that feeling keeps me deeply connected to him throughout the day.
2. The Physical Reminder
I love having a constant reminder of my desire. It keeps me focused on him and reinforces the bond we share.
3. The Surrender of Control
Giving up control has been one of the biggest turn-ons for me. Knowing that my pleasure is no longer mine to decide creates a powerful sense of trust and devotion.
4. The Chastity Cage
The cage itself is a huge part of the appeal. Seeing it and feeling it throughout the day serves as a constant reminder of my commitment and his authority.
5. The Teasing
I love the teasing. A simple look, a touch, or a few carefully chosen words from him can leave me completely distracted and wanting more.
6. The Denial
Denial is definitely a love-hate experience. In the moment it can be frustrating, but later I often appreciate the discipline, anticipation, and emotional intensity it creates.
7. The Communication
Since incorporating chastity into our relationship, we've become much closer. We communicate more openly, understand each other better, and have developed a deeper level of trust both in and out of the bedroom.
You can read about a chastity cage for hours, but words can only take you so far. The true experience begins the moment it clicks shut around you. Only then do you start to understand its power - the constant presence, the awareness, the shift in mindset that follows you throughout the day. What seemed like a simple device becomes something far more consuming, influencing both your thoughts and your body in ways that are impossible to fully grasp until you wear it yourself.
Made a mess all over his caged dick
Nothing makes him more frustrated than seeing another dick unloading all over it
While he’s not allowed to even touch his own
Who likes being treated like this? Reckon you could take it for weeks/months? 👀