I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back. I’ve learned that you can’t make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, & only seconds to destroy.
Stay away from people who always consider you expressing how you feel as you arguing or being extra.
It’s called gaslighting.
Toxic people do that so they don’t have to take accountability for their own behavior.