Miss hanging with bab friends 💔
I let that person alienate me from friends and make me feel bad about trying to connect with others. Couldn’t even have one of my best bab friends at my college graduation bc of that person :/
There’s still times I want to come back to this place… This community I built, my safe space, people who understands this kink.
But how can I? I trusted someone who wrecked it all from the inside out. It still doesn’t feel safe :/
But ultimately I was stupid to believe in my ex. They asked me to leave my life and move across the country then couldn’t last *one month *
Hell put aside a domme or “mommy”- I didn’t have a partner who would answer my texts or help me pack when the time came. Stupid on my part
Actual scary things didn’t scare me off. I fought and advocated still… Then they left when I wouldn’t be kicked to the street. When things could have been figured out, they got a new apartment with someone and left 2 people behind
I’m still considering coming back to social media, because I do miss all the people and community 💗 it was my safe space for so long.
Buuuut I don’t think I’d come back here 🫢
One tweet supposedly = countless posts detailing private info and one sided truths. Mentally ill people will find anyone to blame when they made their own choices. Meanwhile I turned around an awful situation & made a happy life with the person who was worth moving for 💗
Not back but wanted to remind people that actions have consequences. You can’t hurt people for years, try to throw them out like trash, lie about them, take their stuff, and expect them to still be nice 😊
For anyone dealing with extremely mentally ill toxic exes- I feel you