BARBIANA💛

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@FaeCurves @Bessemruth1 I have found you

[liminal @Liminal1988]

Love languages of an overthinker

[𝙰𝚈𝙾𝙳𝙴𝙻𝙴 @ay0dele_]

Studying and graduating is a PRIVILEGE, but working in the field you studied is another PRIVILEGE.

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@Thembithemedium Amen

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Only way my babe's friend can have my number is if my babe give it to her by herself and it has to be for emergency purpose. She even have to tell me before giving you because we are not friends.

Let it be that you're calling me because you've been calling my babe all day and you can't reach her and you fear something is wrong. Don't call me to chit-chat or check on me. I go change am for your papa. Why would you be asking if your friend is present and want to know if I've eaten or she is looking after me?

The only duty I have to you is to love your friend and do right by her and be a gracious host whenever you visit your friend. Your discussion should be with your friend if I am treating her right and she is happy. It should be focused on her best interest and you should be happy for her where she is genuinely happy.

I don't know how men accommodate their babe's friend to the point you're having private meetings and secret calls or chats. You don't have boundaries?

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@SheIsFlorentine @talk2veee Merde🫡🫡🫡🫡

[Renè The Leader ❤ @Rene_noire]

Part 2
I’m divorced so it’s up to you if you listen or not.
1. Never speak ILL of your husband to your family or friends, even after you’ve forgiven him, they’ll always use it against him. ABUSE AND INFIDELITY IS AN EXCEPTION.
2. A man who doesn’t share his little with you when he has nothing , will never share his plenty with you.
3. Never go to bed angry. It might seem insignificant but I assure you it builds resentments. Don’t give your partner the opportunity to conclude in their mind.

[DON “Tobechukwu” Ade 👑 @Row_Haastrup]

I penned down 7 Lessons in my 7 years of marriage last year.
I believe it would bless anyone who reads it 👇

1. Never compare your wife to another woman, in any area whatsoever.

Even if it is your mother, Never make that mistake.
This is also applicable to ladies who especially compare their partners to their dads or other men they once dated.

It is the wrongest thing to do.

If you do this, that relationship won't see the light of day. It will only end in frustration.

When you do this, it only demoralizes & dampens your partner especially when you say it. It kills the spark in that marriage.
Most times you think it, but stop.

Avoid it at all cost.

2. Never hide your finances from your spouse

You could think you are keeping more money to yourself by doing this but you aren't.
If your wife is a prudent, truthful & not an overly spending woman like my wife, then pls expose it all to her.

These women are better at home finance management.
I was a spender but was not aware I was until I got married.

If she is someone who spends without caring about the future or doesn't care about any budget that could be drawn to manage money, my brother you are on your own o 🤣

3. Always be truthful to your spouse about your friends of the opposite sex

The moment you start hiding your friends of the opposite sex or someone you have been engaging without his/her knowledge,you are already laying the bed of cheating & adultery

It is just a matter of time

4. Never raise your voice on your wife, Never

In all you do, Never do this. This usually happens in an argument & I once used to do it.
Unfortunately, naturally my voice is usually loud & that's been from my childhood, those who know me knows this.
However, this is still not enough reason to try overpower your partner with your voice.

It isn't right. It psychologically & mentally weakens your partner, killing the spark between you two.
Even if you are right, sometimes keep quiet until it all goes down. I know it is tough but you can do it.

Don't be too quick to prove your point cos you feel you are right.

One thing I have discovered is that when there is an issue in a relationship, no matter how you swing it & how badly one of you have behaved, BOTH OF YOU ARE AT FAULT.

If you take time to sit & meditate on the whole issue, no matter how right you think you are, you've got a fault, trust me.
There is somewhere somehow where you could have done things better & the matter wouldn't have escalated the way it did.

So no matter what, don't be too keen to prove your point & Never raise your voice

5. Never watch Porn

You might be tempted to want to learn one or two things from porn to spice up to sex life or learn a few things.
Trust me, that thing will only damage your sex life.

Remember sex involves more of your mind & soul that your physical body, this is same as porn.

It would seem like you're learning 1 or 2 things but it is a lie cos the thing you claim you learnt, you won't be able to practice it cos your partner isn't a pornstar.

However, your mind has been damaged by your expectations not being met; there is an urge to fulfil it.

Then you start looking out for other means of fulfilment.

The video is stuck in your mind & renders you unproductive & you could begin to find your partner unattractive; hence, not as aroused as you ought to subsequently.

Run away from Porn.

6. Manage Inlaw Relationship well

Never allow any in-law talk down or talk poorly about your wife even in her absence even if it's your own parent. Never allow it.

Address it on the spot whenever it happens.
Don't respect anybody enough for your partner to be dragged in the mud or like tiger gen.

Remember you are one & if you allow it, it will continue & even you will lose your worth in their eyes.

Don't wait till later to address it. Address it respectfully on the spot.
It binds you both more & your partner respects & loves you more for it

[Solitude @GSolitry]

Delusion is doing bad things to you & I hope you come to acceptance soon. That person doesn’t like you. Their nonchalance doesn’t mean they are too busy. They don’t call you often?They don’t like you.
They don’t make out time to visit you or go out with you?They don’t like you.

[Thee Comfort O.🌸 @comfortomovre]

Today is International Girlfriends day🤭🤭🤭

Here’s a list of some of the best girlfriends in the world!

If your girlfriend falls into any of these categories, send her money today😉

A thread.

[Lorna @i_lorna_]

Please I’m in search of an entry level position for someone with a masters in corporate communication. Preferably in Yaound��.
Please help me retweet and my DMs are open.

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@MrBolt237 This hit home fr

[Sub-Pharmacist🍏 @subpharmacist]

1. Drink a cup of water now. It’s good for your kidneys.
2. No soda or added sugar today.
3. Cabbage is good for your liver.
4. If you want to snack healthy, snack on cucumber and groundnut.
5. Manage stress properly. Do that for yourself.
6. Retweet. Do that for others.

[Sub-Pharmacist🍏 @subpharmacist]

1. Do yourself a favor and get rich.
2. Do yourself a favor and stay away from added sugar.
3. Do yourself a favor and lose weight if you’re overweight.
4. Do yourself a favor and stop smoking.
5. Do yourself a favor and drink a cup of water rn.
6. Do someone a favor and RT this.

[REAL CASMOND 🇨🇲 @RealCasmond]

IN NEED OF A NURSE

A local company is looking for the service of a nurse.

Age : 18-45
Location : Crossroads bastos
Hours : to be adapted
Tasks : nursing
Qualities : professionalism, welcoming, cleanliness, organization, desire to learn.

Salary: 100,000 fcfa

[Mr Bolt @MrBolt237]

How to let go of an ex?

[Humble Hedsten🥷🏽 @Chinda1111]

Give birth to children you can take care of,don’t give birth and start relying on relatives to help you out with your kids.Some of us are proud to say we were raised by our parents live in our parents house till we move out to start our own journey, without the help of any rltive

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@Chinda1111 This is a trend that has to stop

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@_arasmiles We plenty ohhhhhhhhhh. Housewives but single women full d place tsuips

[BARBIANA💛 @BabethMbu]

@goldendust17 No i can't. Bcs I respect my friendship.