the secret about saturn is when it influence an area of your life, you have to take advantage of it rather than suffer. make use of your free will than trying to control the situation, thing, or person, etcetera.
i love Saturn's brutality. if you can't take the truth, suffer. no pain, no gain. saturn don't want you to stay in things, situation, job, places, relationship, etc, which don't bring a healthy and abundant growth into your life. help your self because if you won't, no one will.