one of the hardest realisations is understanding that some people loved the comfort of being loved by you, but never had the emotional depth to love you in the way you deserved.
Someone is going to adore every awkward little thing about you. The quirks you overthink will be the very things they daydream about. Your humanness is part of your charm, it was never something you needed to hide or change.
you need to learn to stay away from people who make you mean, crazy or reactive. that’s not you or who you want to be. so if they being that out of you, they’ve got to go
A man who lies can’t lead. A man who cheats can’t lead. A man who never takes accountability can’t lead. A man who lets pride, anger, and ego control his decisions can’t lead either. Leadership starts with character. If a man can’t be honest, disciplined, responsible, and respectful, he has no business expecting anyone to trust him with a household.
The best decision I ever made was to be quiet. I have nothing to prove. I'm done explaining myself, done convincing anyone of my worth, and done fixing what I didn't break. I refuse to fight for a spot in anyone's life. If you see my value, great. If you don't, that's on you. I'm not forcing anyone to appreciate me, respect me, or treat me right. That's a choice they have to make on their own. Just lessons and a future that no longer includes people who took me for granted
kind men. men with soft voices and gentle manners. men who take the lead but always take your advice. men with soft eyes and a ready hug. men who know that true masculinity is making women feel safe and heard.
God, help me release what I can't control. If this chapter is over, give me the strength to accept it. If healing takes time, walk with me through it. And help me focus on the life You have in front of me instead of the one behind me. Amen 🙏🏾
manifesting your dream relationship starts with unsubscribing from society's standards. from what you've been taught about love. you can have true romance. you can have a healthy marriage that lasts. you can experience it all if you dare to believe again.