I’m not a fan of grown people who are perpetual victims. You can’t be a victim in every story love. I don’t mind sharing when I’ve been the villain because why would you even play with me like that lmfao
calling out shitty behavior isn’t starting problems. i’m genuinely curious.. how long am i supposed to stay passive before i’m allowed to address an issue? because somehow people are fine with the behavior itself but the moment it’s acknowledged out loud suddenly that’s the problem.
Ppl can’t be told about themselves and wonder why u stop talking to them 😭😭😭 cause even after addressing it they’ll flip it on u and process nothing u just said
calling out shitty behavior isn’t starting problems. i’m genuinely curious.. how long am i supposed to stay passive before i’m allowed to address an issue? because somehow people are fine with the behavior itself but the moment it’s acknowledged out loud suddenly that’s the problem.
@backlessdress26 I love and respect women which is why I refuse to infantilize them lol. Taking inventory of your life and actions is much more feminist than throwing your hands up and saying “I’m just a girl”
Like I have close female friendships that I cherish very much but that came after such a long time of j dealing with all sorts of shit so idgaf if a girl thinks “men are less drama,” nobody even says that anyws its j stereotypes yall learned to slutshame women & not even realize
women will ALWAYS have a “at first I thought you were a bitch” moment to laugh about but when someone else points that yes it’s hard to make female friendships when youre just a bit different without going through all the trials of Hercules it’s a crazy male centered red flag
I didn't have girl friends growing up because other girls immediately clocked my lack of female social conditioning, and mocked me for it. I learned to make and keep female friends in my 20s, but it was hard, and I really think that everybody should give this woman more grace.
or you mask for months or even years within a friendship and then you get comfortable and start leeching out parts of your true self and now you’re persona non grata.