a cheating man is bad enough, but the one that pretends to be a good person when he's actually a pathological liar, lustful manipulator & professional victim? that's worse
“Buying a house right now is FCKING MENTAL. what do you mean I can borrow $400K at 8%, pay almost $3K every month for 10 YEARS, hand the bank roughly $352K, and STILL owe around $351K. And that’s before we even talk about taxes, insurance, maintenance, or repairs. Wild. WILD.”
The more self-regulated you become, the more you realize that communicating your feelings isn’t an emergency. You can sit with it. Sleep on it. Let the wave pass. You don’t have to rush into expression just because the emotion feels loud.That’s why, days after you’ve said your piece and it spirals, you replay it. You think of what you should have said, how you could have said it, or you cringe because you realize you didn’t need to say anything at all. You just needed time.
BE BORING OCTOBER:
- Go to the gym
- Take your vitamins
- Meal prep every Sunday
- Eat your home-cooked meals
- Walk 8,000–10,000 steps a day
- Pack your gym bag the night before
- Say no to things that drain your energy
In order to bring back love letters, we must first bring back the real lovers, and in order to bring back the real lovers, we must bring back emotional intelligence, kindness, empathy, and consideration.