Men should get comfortable saying "That isn't appropriate for work and I shouldn't have to tell you that." These people only respond to shaming and not argument.
The irony of how Hypergamy always plays out in the dating pool is so interesting to see.
When you were in secondary school, your SS2 female classmates dated SS3 boys or those who had just graduated because Hypergamy is basically dating up, and that is, in fact, how women (read: most) date.
In the university, your 100L female coursemates refused to date you because, according to them, you were a small boy, even though you were older than them. They didn’t see you as someone on the same dating page as them.
If you ever lived in a school hostel or even off campus, you must have noticed how cars came to pick up your female coursemates during weekends and return them on Sunday evenings. Those guys were working-class men who sort of had their lives in order already.
There’s even a popular saying among women that “A 20-year-old girl and a 20-year-old guy are not age mates. The girl is older than him.” And let’s not act as though we don’t know exactly what that means.
Ladies in their final year mostly date working-class men.
Do you know that even in the corporate world, your female colleagues at work who earn the same salary as you don’t see you as their mates in the dating sense?
They won’t date you. If they even want to date within the company, it is still someone in a higher position.
Of course, there are nuances. There are babes who date their age mates, coursemates, work colleagues, and so on. But, like I will always say, nuances and exceptions don’t negate the rule.
Now, here’s where Hypergamy gets interesting: the same women who dated up all their lives get to a certain age or phase in their lives and suddenly decide that they can dictate how men their age should date.
As a man, your 30s and 40s are considered your prime years, simply because, at 30+, you are wiser, emotionally more mature, financially in a better place, have a good job or business, and are even fitter if you go to the gym.
In your prime years, you are desired by all categories of women: younger women, your age mates, and older women.
All of a sudden, women your age who used to call you a small boy now consider you old enough to date.
Of course, younger women in their early and mid-20s want you because — Hypergamy. Without sugarcoating it, women date up because of security. From financial to emotional to physical security.
Older women want you because you are hotter and have your life together. Albeit, most older women still date up. It doesn’t necessarily have to be about age, but you get the drill.
At the end of the day, you are more likely to desire the younger women because you can cater to their needs and they listen more. The needs of a 23-year-old babe and a 29-year-old lady are not the same in every context.
And this makes women mad.
They begin to gaslight and guilt-trip you over your choice of women. They begin to tell you that you are dating younger women because they are easy to manipulate and because their frontal lobe isn’t developed yet, they don’t really know what they want.
Don’t fall for it.
These are the same women who told you in uni that you were a small boy and that a 20-year-old girl is older than a 20-year-old boy.
That is why I said I find Hypergamy very interesting. It benefits women first, but it is just turn by turn. The men benefit too, but later. Men don’t cry about the dynamics because they understand that the game has never been fair. They just lock in to become part of the men whom women want to date “up.”
It is women who want to eat their cake and have it.
The game doesn’t care about anyone’s feelings.
Israel DMW must have been ruined and back to zero now if he listened to his EX wife and left Davido. She would have still divorced him after he becomes a nobody.
That’s how women operate.
She knew he was Davido’s boy before marrying him, she loved the access and attention, reason she chose to marry him.
But all of a sudden, that same thing that attracted him to her is what she wants him to let go. If he drops it, she’ll end up hating him for dropping it and still dump it.
It’s same with when a woman likes you because you’re the women’s guy. She loves how a lot of women want you, she loves the bad boy in you. She will push to get you, she will now try to change you so you can start focusing on her alone and probably overfeed you so you lose your gym body and start looking unattractive. The moment you allow that to happen, the moment she starts getting peace of mind that she’s got you, she will start hating you for the changes. You’ll get dumped and regret changing for her.
Whatever a woman finds attract in you from the start better stays, if not, you’ve lost her.
After she left Israel; he’s completed a house in Benin, been to several countries, Davido just got him a 2026 Prado jeep too.
As a man, lead. If not, a woman can mislead you.
Just look at life..
- To the wife, her husband is being sweet
- To other Women, the gesture is a hinderance
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Now let’s flip!
If it’s a case where the wife asks her husband first before going ahead with a deal
Then it’s no longer a sweet gesture.. The husband is ‘controlling’ and trying to dim his wife’s light.
And it’s the same across board!
That’s why I say..
That huge thing you’re doing for your Mum, if you start doing it for your Wife, automatically “your Wife has started using your head”
That huge thing you’re doing for your Wife, once you start doing it for your Mum, “His Mother is controlling him”.
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For Women, it’s mainly a battle of “who can use the Men around them to their selfish advantage the most”
It’s only a sweet gesture when done to them, extend the gestures and you become foolish or the other Women are manipulating you.
Also..
What a Man wants in his Woman, he wants for his sisters and daughters too
But what a Woman wants in her Man, she doesn’t want for her brother and son.
See… I can never believe Women are inherently ‘good people’ compared to Men.
They’re way too self-centered to be reasonable.. But play victim at every slight chance they get.
This is trivially easy to explain when you understand that feminism is a supremacy movement
Women only have one form of power over men - the ability to leverage their sexuality and decide who can have sex and who can't
The Korean 4B movement is simply that - "Give us this large list of what we want, at the expense of productive men, or we close our legs"
Women losing access to this eliminates all their power and naturally produces patriarchy. Every society on earth mandated female modesty in order to produce this, which ironically produces better environments for women because women don't actually know what they really want
Note which values are the top of the feminist hierarchy - the ability to be a whore, the ability to abort a low quality man's child, the ability to severely punish rapists (or men who don't commit after sex)
All of these undermine female sexual power
Societies collapse when this is permitted because patriarchy is the only system that channels women into pro-social behavior
Nigeria is the first African country to win the FIFA U-17 Women's World Cup (2026), FIFA U-17 Men's World Cup (1985) and Olympic Gold medal in Football (1996).
🚨 𝗡𝗘𝗪: José Mourinho's Real Madrid has broken several streaks this season:
• Inter's streak of being unbeaten for 6 months
• Roma's streak of being unbeaten for 5 months
• Barcelona's streak of being unbeaten for 17 months at home
The Americans voted against the party that dragged them into war in the Middle East by voting for the party that will not take them out of the war in the Middle East.
Heads they lose to Epstein. Tails Epstein wins against them.
Democracy.
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She was likely with another man.
From personal experience, anytime a woman suddenly starts picking fights and looking for trouble, she is probably with another man or has just cheated and is now battling with a guilty conscience.
Watch how quickly she went, “Ooooh, so you're with another girl, abi?”
She said that to make herself feel better about her own actions and start an argument. The argument then becomes a convenient way to create something for both of you to quarrel over, so she can have the freedom to do whatever she wants without disturbance.
That way, you won't call, video call or text her. Even if you do, she won't pick up and will use the disagreement as a valid reason for ignoring you because she is "mad at you."
This way, she gets all the time she needs to cheat peacefully.
❤️🫂 Matheus Cunha: “What an unbelievable pass from Shea! It's beautiful when you have an academy player that comes and has a great impact in the game”.
“When I saw the ball going, to be honest, I didn't believe it, the comeback!”, told @CBSSportsGolazo.
Very animalistic set of people. But na those coward "Christians" and their stupid tweets dey vex me pass. Mfs don't even understand the importance of any of the limited rights they currently have.
@ButtyGhetto_ Bruno haters always making up stories to justify their hatred for him. No difference between Ronaldo haters and Bruno haters. Just agenda, no facts.
Once u become attached and addicted to mediocrity, everything exceptional starts looking boring, and u begin finding faults in greatness just to make ur mediocre self feel superior. Most people suffer from this, they actually dislike greatness.