i want that really cliché friend group that takes long drives together, takes pictures of each other when they're not looking, goes on random picnics, and visits museums together. i want it so bad.
Women get prettier when our nervous system is regulated & we're not living in chronic stress. Longer hair, shinier hair, softer + glowier skin, no bloating, no breakouts, no mood swings. We’re our best version when we rest more, slow down, spend more time in the sun, eat warm foods, dance, frolic... Biologically we're wired to be whimsical
The kindest thing literature does is remind you that your peculiar little feelings have always existed. Someone, in some century, was equally confused by love, bored by society, tired of performing, and hungry for meaning.
The best form of intimacy is intellectual intimacy. conversations where hours pass without effort and it still feels like time is running out. the right person makes you stop thinking about what topics to talk about, and instead make you genuinely interested in how someone's mind works. having a similar level of emotional awareness and depth is probably the most attractive thing about someone. someone that can match all the work that I've done to get to where I am and also understand it because they put in a similar amount of work.
HOT TAKE: Boys aren't raised to be men. They're raised to not be girls. That's the root of so much misogyny. Society doesn't teach boys empathy, emotional honesty, or respect for women as equals, it teaches them to suppress vulnerability, dominate,and fear anything "feminine." They're rewarded for aggression and punished for kindness. And when adulthood hits,these habits don't just vanish, they manifest as entitlement, objectification, and sexism.
less screen time, more standing below a tree, following the moon, making conversations, trying new hobbies, watching sunsets and suddenly the world doesn’t feel so grey
Being asked a really good question feels phenomenal. The type of question that leads to a thoughtful conversation where I almost have to collect my thoughts before diving into it. That scratches my brain so goood. It makes me feel so known and desired