“I got spanked, and I turned out fine” needs to be looked at deeper.
- Can you handle your emotions without having outbursts or meltdowns?
- What do your relationships look like?
- How do people close to you feel in your presence?
- Do your respect your body?
- Do you need substances to cope?
Fine can mean you exist in survival mode. Humans are meant to thrive. Abuse does not set up the foundation for us to thrive. It’s sets the foundation for shame, high defensiveness, and dysfunctional relationships.
I would pay to watch footage of someone doing their "own research" on vaccines. Share your screen because I am absolutely dying to know what you're looking at
Capricorn obsesses over their imperfections, Virgo is paranoid about their imperfections and Taurus bullies themselves on their imperfections lol.
Earth signs are VERY hard on themselves.