I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so weird – it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re actually just respecting your own feelings, because you’re so used to putting other people's feelings first.
i can feel my time coming
people are finally starting to see that I am not 2 dimensional
I have more layers than just a perception someone can hold
I am a conglomerate of energy created from genuine pain
and walking through situations being pierced and chained to that reality
I love a person who can put their pride aside, apologize and actually change their behaviour. That awareness, accountability, and emotional intelligence is so attractive.
“Soft launch” this “hard launch” that, back in my day if you were even slightly interested in someone you’d post full photos of them on main for mcm or wcw
stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. I've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. And nothing you say will change that. Keep your guard up. Don't waste your time and energy.