Having compassion and empathy for why someone behaves the way they do based on their experiences, never means you have to tolerate the behavior or hold space for it. You can absolutely have compassion and set a boundary. This is what it means to also have compassion for yourself.
You may have made certain control agreements to hold yourself back. This is very common to do with loved ones or even romantic partners who are younger souls that get triggered by your abilities. When you clear these be ready for the punishment energy they will throw at you.
From the place of a genuine affinity and heart chakra connection, my generosity, love, support, sharing, space holding, resources, creative ideas, healing and balanced energy exchange just naturally spills over abundantly to the ones who hold that sacred space.
This is why people end up in a relationship feeling alone. Having someone in the same room can be very lonely if you don’t understand this truth. You can not truly be with another if you are not first with yourself.