you can tell whos a fake ville valo fan because they dont tweet about dark light era ville because he didnt look conventionally attractive sincerely ceo of dark light
and no matter the reasoning behind it. never ever allow someone to use their lack of self control or self awareness as an excuse to disrupt your peace and your safety.
having bpd (borderline personality disorder) makes having space to manage my emotional dysregulation VITAL, not optional, non negotiable. he repeatedly denied me that space and that is a coercive tactic to force compliance and engagement. no matter what the intention was.