you guys can express your disappointment but the second you turn around and say “___ should go back to the military” your point is lost and i’ve stopped hearing you
My cousin was sexually assaulted, and some of the relatives asked, “Why didn’t she fight back?” I said, “Handing over your wallet when you're getting mugged is seen as a way to keep yourself safe. Yet when you comply during Sexual Assault, people ask why you didn't fight back.”
Silence in the room