The smarter you get as a man, the more you treat your father with respect and forgive that man for everything. You start to realize how unscripted life is, we learn with time.
My dad once told me,
"When you start a family, that family becomes your biggest PRIORITY. Don't let anyone or anything come between that, not even me."
That always stuck with me. Don't let the family you COME FROM destroy the family you BUILD!!!!!
“The best you can do for yourself, don’t chase who doesn’t like you.
The most miserable thing that can happen to you is to be with somebody that you were there second choice.”
- Pastor Lawal Dolapo
Not to sound delusional, but please pray for grace. Life isn't really about hard work. It's more about meeting the right people, grace, mercy, and favour.
You don't need to pray for hours. You don't need to shout the roof down. You don't necessarily need to speak in tongues. You just need to have an unwavering faith in God when you pray. You need to believe without a doubt that God is going to answer you.
It is that ‘simple’.
Always remember: your wife owes you financial accountability, and you owe her financial transparency and responsibility.
Stick to this simple but hard method, and you will enjoy relative peace in your home.
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Life humbles you. As you grow old, you stop chasing the big things and start valuing the little things.
Alone time, enough sleep, a good diet, long walks, and quality time with loved ones.
Simplicity becomes the ultimate goal.
I urge you to study Ezekiel 37:1-14.
You will understand the importance of speaking into your life. You can literally recreate your future with the words you speak, especially when you declare the Word of God over any circumstance.
I charge you to start speaking to your finances, your marriage, your job speak and declare your expectations over all that concerns you. And watch what will happen!