One thing about women,and believe me this is not a theory,is they do not care. At all. Whether you bought her car,an iphone 17,pay her insurance,took her to Ritz carlton,or you pay her rent,all this is meaningless when she likes you. But the problem is,all this is also meaningless when she doesnt like you. You’ll send 50k on her birthday uone umefanya kitu kubwa,mwingine amtumie mia tatu,but she will see the mia tatu guy as more thoughtful because she likes him. So as men its only sensible,that we do the bare minimum,or just enough,and aspire to be loved not because of the extent we go,but because of what we are.