My therapist told me, "When a woman grows up feeling unseen, she learns to love by overgiving. She pours into everyone else, hoping that one day someone will finally pour back into her. She becomes the caretaker, the fixer, the one who shows up even when no one shows up for her. And the hardest part? Deep down, she's not trying to be strong. She's just waiting for someone to do for her what she's spent her whole life doing for everyone else."
chega uma hora que a gente cansa de anular nossos sentimentos p entender os outros. ser sempre a pessoa empática causa uma exaustão mental enorme no final, quem te entende? quem te compreende? quem se coloca no seu lugar?
Reality is some people just don’t align & this was my last year letting my empathy for people keep me attached to what my discernment already rejected.
Tbh, dating isn’t even enjoyable when you’re broke. No vacations, no nice dinners, no exciting experiences. Just endless “How was your day?” and “Have you eaten?” conversations. At that point, I’d rather just be single.
La etapa de estar con un hombre que no sigue mil tipas random, es reservado, inteligente, compañero, detallista, enfocado en progresar y obsesionado contigo, se lo deseo a todas.