Once you stop being frustrated at not being where you think you want to be, and understand that God has laid out everything you need in front of you.
You will start breaking your own chains once you carry forward His plan for you.
Let go of your own limiting beliefs
Your life should revolve around those who want to love you and genuinely care about you. Forget the ones who break their promises and don’t reciprocate that energy back. It's harsh to say & it hurts to think about. But you have to give your energy to those who are real with you.