girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
You had a plan But it didn't work out. you felt lost, maybe even forgotten But Allah never forgot you what you wanted was good but what Allah has written is better trust the detour it's still leading you home.
If you are tested with delays in attaining what you desire most, be patient.
For Allah may be preparing for you something far greater than what you asked for.
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a great day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
Ya Rabb, protect me from self-doubt, harmful comparisons, and the need for people’s validation. Fill my heart with confidence in You, help me see the good, and guide me to treat myself with kindness and mercy. 🤍
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?
when people don't consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go... there's actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love