one person that’s it, because no matter where you look everyone gonna have a flaw what the last one didn’t do the other one might do but that doesn’t mean they’re 100% in every other category, you just gotta chose who you truly want to build through the fire with.
I am not looking for someone who has it all figured out. I want to work on myself with my partner by my side and I want them to work on theirselves with me by their side. Life isn't easy, let's do this together.
Tyler Perry said it best:
Before you marry or commit to someone, see them in all seasons — happy, mad, stable, broke, and hurt.
One of the realest quotes that will always stand the test of time.
i’m just learning i don’t have all the answers im just like you in this world everything we have / learned is from ourselves. teach me what you learned so you can help me help myself, we unite as one.
but then again i can expect everyone to feel the way i do about relationships and that’s fine i just wish some people wouldn’t say forever because i take it literal because when i say it i mean that and giving up isn’t on my check box for anything, we face the problem over and over until we get it right that’s what forever means. everyone is human and operates at a different mental, everyone doesn’t process things as quickly as others until they’re fully ready to face themselves. my level of loyalty sometimes goes to far just to hurt myself in the end but i wouldn’t be who i am without the loyalty i have and for that im forever grateful.
just trying to build no matter how hard it gets, no giving up because people always come out the other side that’s why i’ve never gave up because what i love, i love and i know life has cycles and i’d be willing to go through hell and back then to give up on something built.
Marriage was never meant to be perfect, it was meant to be a partnership. It’s about choosing one another over and over again, even in the chaos. You spend years learning each other, breaking old patterns, and walking through hard seasons. And yes, sometimes it gets really tough.