In 2021 I was so bored with my life, practically making 30 to 40K on autopilot every month. I filled out a job application to work at Footlocker just for the sake of social interaction
Use money to buy comfort and speed. Not material possessions. Get the best office chair, mattress, 1st class flights, healthy food, coaches and mentors.
All these dealerships keep lowballing me for my Db11. Hold another year to lose another $10k or sell and take a $40k lost. If invested, selling still makes more sense. Lesson learned.
A woman's interest levels are comprised of two parts: her attraction towards you and her level of intent to meet you in a romantic setting. NOT just her attraction levels. You only get true genuine "high interest" when she's high attraction AND high intent.
I value people who can willingly and enthusiastically speak to anyone and, through that conversation, form a genuine connection.
Makes me wonder how many opportunities never came to be because I was reluctant to speak up.
It's not that I have problems speaking to people. I just simply don't want to
Connection, attraction, comfort, escalation. This is the linear model of how all romantic relationships are formed, casual and serious. You skip one step: you're either in the friend zone, have a crush, are a pen pal, or going to jail.
Free will should not be taken for granted. You can literally wake up and learn any skill ever within a few months. Your only distraction is your ability to focus.
The story of Adam and Eve shows us that any woman in your life, intentionally or not,will make you a weaker man over time. You didn’t bite the apple. But you did indulge in complacency.
Life is long and short at the same time. It's short because each phase of life doesn't last long: from your schooling years to early adult life to family life, then watching your kids grow older by the month. 20 years go by. You look back and it only felt like 5
These Miami women won't even look at you on the street but are quick to say, "Hi handsome," on a dating app.
Same level of attractiveness too. I really think most times when making dating decisions, women have to be in a "buying state."
Casually during the day, they naturally put up a wall even if you're the dream man