self-sabotage is also
• not asking for help
• rejecting praise
• isolating yourself when hurt
• saying "yes" to everything
• putting your needs on hold
• procrastinating on important tasks
• watching too much news
• trying to be perfect
i yearn for the kind of connection where you can sit for hours talking about life, fears, secrets, everything and nothing. where both of you feel safe enough to be completely known.